For kids 9 to 14 and the parents who love them

Help your child bounce back from big feelings and tough days.

Kokoro Kids teaches simple, evidence-based tools from martial arts and positive psychology. Kids learn them, parents back them up, and it takes about 10 minutes a day together.

Body · Heart · Mind · SpiritCreated by a coaching psychology lecturer and a 5th Dan martial arts instructor
Sound familiar?

Kids today carry a lot. Most were never shown what to do with it.

"I can't do it."

Homework, sport or a new skill ends in tears or giving up.

Meltdowns out of nowhere

Small things tip into big reactions, and nobody feels good after.

Worry before school

Tummy aches, sleepless nights and dread before tests or games.

Growing apart

Screens, busy weeks and one-word answers. You want to reconnect.

Resilience isn't something kids either have or don't. It's a set of skills, and skills can be taught. That's what Kokoro Kids does.

Our approach

The Kokoro Tree: resilience grows from the roots up.

Kokoro is Japanese for heart, mind and spirit as one. Our tree gives kids four layers of skills, each with simple tools they can use the moment things get hard.

LeavesSpirit

Know your why

Strengths, values and gratitude, so kids know what matters to them and keep going.

BranchesMind

Think it through

The power of "yet", problem solving and learning from mistakes instead of fearing them.

TrunkHeart

Name it to tame it

Recognising big feelings, putting words to them, and handling worry, anger and frustration.

RootsBody

Steady roots

Breath, stance and energy skills from the martial arts. A calm body comes before clear thinking.

How it works

Ten minutes a day, done together.

Every lesson has three short parts, so your child learns a tool and you know exactly how to support it at home.

15 to 7 minutes

Your child watches

A fun, active video lesson with Mark or Cat that teaches one practical tool.

23 to 5 minutes

You learn how to help

A short parent video on what to say, what to model and what to avoid.

310 minutes

You practise together

A simple family activity or game that turns the tool into a habit.

Coming soon

Bounce Back: the Kokoro Resilience Starter

Five days, one tool a day from each part of the Kokoro Tree. The perfect place to start.

  • Dragon Breath and strong stance to calm a busy body
  • The feelings thermometer to name and shrink big emotions
  • STOP, THINK, ACT for sticky problems
  • A personal Bounce Back Plan your child keeps
  • Printable family toolkit and a 7-day challenge

Be first in line

Join the waitlist for the launch date and a founding-family price.

A$47once-off, lifetime access
Join the waitlist
Grow the whole tree

Start small. Keep growing.

Every course grows a new part of your child's Kokoro Tree, so there's always a next step when they're ready.

FreeCalm-down lessonDragon Breath and the feelings thermometer
Start hereBounce BackOne tool from every part of the tree
Course 1 · RootsSteady RootsEnergy, calm and focus under pressure
Courses 2 to 4Trunk, Branches, LeavesFeelings, mindset, and purpose
Keep goingKokoro Club and live workshopsMonthly challenges, camps and coaching
Meet the founders

Psychology and martial arts, working together.

We started Kokoro Kids because we kept seeing the same thing: kids and parents drifting apart, and kids without the tools to handle pressure.

Read our story

Cat

Leadership coach · Lecturer at ACAP University

Cat brings an evidence-based, playful approach to personal development. She is completing a doctorate in team coaching, has coached teams and leaders internationally, and is a working mum.

Mark

5th Dan Black Belt · 15+ years teaching

Mark directs more than 40 martial arts classes a week for students from 18 months to adults. His medical background and training in Taekwondo, kickboxing and Tai Chi shape programs every child can join in.

Free for families

Try it tonight: the free calm-down lesson.

Get our Dragon Breath routine and printable feelings thermometer, free. It takes 10 minutes and works for the whole family.

  • The Dragon Breath calm-down routine, step by step
  • A printable feelings thermometer for the fridge
  • What to say in the moment, for parents
  • Plus our follow-along video when it's released

You'll get the toolkit straight away. Unsubscribe any time. We never share your details.

Questions

Parents often ask

What age is Kokoro Kids for?

Our online courses are designed for kids aged 9 to 14, doing the course alongside a parent or carer.

Does my child need martial arts experience?

Not at all. We borrow simple tools from the martial arts, like breathing and stance, but no fighting and no experience needed. Everything is done at home in normal clothes.

How much time does it take?

About 10 to 15 minutes a day. Each lesson is a short kid video, a short parent video and a quick family activity.

Is this therapy?

No. Kokoro Kids teaches everyday life skills. If you're worried about your child's mental health, please speak with your GP or a psychologist. We're happy to be part of the support around your family.

When does Bounce Back launch?

Very soon. Join the waitlist and you'll be first to know, with a founding-family price.